Monday, March 2, 2009

Studying

Hi there readers. Is anyone out there??!!!!
Today I started studying with on line university. Something different. If I can stick at it, and succeed, I will get a Bachelor of Behavioural Studies sometime within the coming millenium. I logged on to the website today and was immediately overwhelmed with the amount of information to read through. I'll get there, but it's a bit tricky finding where 'there' is as there seems to be lots of hidey hole places that they publish all this information! Ah well, it's a great learning experience. At least I know how to use the computer. :-)
Our 'little' music group is just going crazy at the moment. Last year we saw steady growth all year (at times the growth was actually explosive but it always seemed to settle down after a couple of weeks). This year we're getting new families every week! We've had to say goodbye to a couple of families who are moving interstate or overseas so you'd think the whole natural attrition thing would kick in, but it doesn't seem to be. We had 31 families today over two classes and when many of these families have two or sometimes three children it makes for a very busy time! I'm glad my friend "Mrs Wiggle" has the energy to keep up with them during the singing time. I certainly get my fair share during play time too. The families really are great and it's just nice to get out and meet lots of different people from really different backgrounds each week.
I've been having a big battle with Centrelink lately - why can't anyone in that organisation get their information correct? For a couple of months I've had people telling me that it's ok to study part time, and that I will still be meeting my obligations to get the Parenting Payment. Then last Tuesday a lovely young lady in my local office explained that I actually need to be studying full time, or I need to get some work as well as study part time! Stike me pink! I thought I was doing the right thing! I came home and tried to enroll in another subject but of course enrolments closed two weeks ago so I can't! I just love Centrelink. I think I've kind of got it sorted now (after a meeting with the Manager of my local office) so we'll see how we go.
I think my psychologist is doing her job well - since I've been seeing her my emotions have gone to pot! Now that I've moved house it seems that there were a lot of issues I hadn't really given a lot of 'air time' to that are now demanding some attention. I'm really thankful that I have a psychologist who is sensible and intelligent both at the same time! Who'd have thunk it?!
Have had lots of 'explosions' with Madame I. Her Asperger's issues are quite prominent at the moment. There has been a lot for her to deal with- going back to school, moving house, being in a small room with a younger sister who knows just which buttons to press to get a big reaction, etc. I was thinking today about the Clipsal500 being set up and I remember last year going to see her psychologist when the roads were closed, then I realised it's the same time of year again. Perhaps it's something we'll have at the start of each year as she adjusts to the new grade, new teacher, new classmates, etc. So I'm going to just sit it out, love her lots and see if it settles down soon (I'm hoping it will!).
I've loved reading the blogs from Ozimum, a good friend who has just come home with her new daughter (and husband....) from China. It's been an amazing, beautiful journey and they have the most beautiful little princess. She's just gorgeous. It's been really nice seeing the joy she's already brought to their family.
Still haven't heard whether I'm allowed to have a garage sale, so keep watching this space....

3 comments:

Ecushla said...

Hi jen! I'm here lol. Go to www.feedburner.com and you can sign up and they track the number of people who either subscribe by email, subscribe by feed reader or click on your site. Sometimes it helps to know someone is there lol.

I am still on that research project!

You should add a link to your friends blog too (if its public) cause people love to find new blogs.

Just a couple of tips i am learning

Anonymous said...

Hey Jen! I'm here too (PKE) ... with you every step of the way (or at least as much as you can be when you live nearly 300km's away). I've been waiting for you to ring me with your cheap, naked DSL thingy (is it just me or does that sound unfortunately pornographic??). I'm gonna stay home from the club tonight I think, so will ring you after tea.

re the Psychologist ... I'm glad you found a good one, it really does help. I guess you do what you can, one day at a time and deal with what you can when you have the time and energy for it.

re Madame I ... I hear ya!! It will help if you repeat after me ... "It's only a phase, it's only a phase, it's only a phase". If that fails, cry piteously into your pillow and yell "why me??" After all that, well you already know ... grit your teeth and move on and love her as much as you can. She's a gorgeous girl.

Anonymous said...

Hi Jenni! It's so exciting that you're studying :) I hope you don't stay overwhelmed by the reading you have to do, I'm sure it will get better!

Larissa :D